Want to help your group? Work on yourself. Figure out who you are and what you stand for. Bring THAT to your group. When we bring false personas or fake aspirations we just mess things up and cause inefficiency. In this video Craig tells the story of Zushya, and the question that he fears God will ask him.
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Here’s what Craig says in the video
Hi everybody! Hey it’s Craig Freshley here. Today I’m in North Station, Boston.
You know that a lot of my tips are actually about individual attitudes and individual behaviors, because it’s individuals that add up to good group decisions.
Today, the story of Zushya, the Rabbi Master who was sad and worried on his deathbed.
His followers asked, “Why are you so worried?” and he said, “I have finally figured out the question that the Creator is going to ask me.”
“What’s the question?” they said.
“He is not going to ask me, ‘Zushya, why weren’t you a Moses who led your people into freedom?’ He’s not going to ask me ‘Zushya, why weren’t you a Joshua who led your people to the Promised Land?’ He’s going to ask me, ‘Why weren’t you Zushya?'”
The idea is that we have to be ourselves. That is the calling to greatness and if you really want to help your group, don’t bring the person that you think is going to get into heaven. Don’t bring the persona that you think your group members want. Just bring you.
I hope this helps you help your group make good decisions.
Thanks a lot everybody.
Dear Craig,
Great story about Zushya and the worrisome question.
Thanks for the reminder; to be authentic is all one needs to be.